Talking with Your Child about CPP
Learn how to answer your child’s questions and talk about CPP
Most children want to fit in with other children; they don’t want to be different. Children who begin
puberty early may feel different from other children their age, which can cause social and emotional
problems. As a parent, you also may have trouble dealing with your child's early development.
Learning how to talk to your child and answer his or her questions can go a long way toward helping to
make you and your child feel more comfortable with CPP and its treatment.1
Treat your child age appropriately
Due to CPP, your child may be taller than other children who are the same age. It is important that
children with CPP are treated according to their actual age rather than their size. Children tend to
behave according to how they are treated. Because he or she may physically look old enough to handle
activities and situations more appropriate for an older child, it can be easy to forget your child’s
emotional and mental maturity are still developing at milestones appropriate for his or her
chronological age. Parents of children with precocious puberty should remind teachers, relatives, and
friends about this important relationship.
Ways to reassure your child
Your child may feel embarrassed by the physical effects of puberty. Many children want to look and act
like their friends. It is helpful to emphasize to your child that all girls and boys normally experience
puberty, but in his or her case, it has occurred sooner than usual. It is important to tell your child that
the changes in his or her body are normal. Your child should be allowed to participate in his or her
usual activities, which may include spending the night with a friend, athletics, and extracurricular
activities. Encourage your child to discuss any worries that he or she may be having.1
If you, your child, or other members of your family are having difficulty coping, seek counseling.
Psychological counseling can help your family better understand and handle the emotions, issues, and
challenges that accompany precocious puberty. If you have questions or would like guidance on how to
find a qualified counselor, talk with your child’s physician.